What is this?

I seriously get annoyed when people tell you how much your problems don’t matter as compared to others’. Yes objectively and in the grand scheme of things, your problems might be just peanuts to others’, your problems might not be matters of life and death, but people who say your problems don’t matter are not you, they’re neither physically nor emotionally involved in those problems – they know your stories but they are not in them. They’ve not gone through the magnitude of your pain, bitterness, frustration and other emotionally debilitating negative feelings. So really, who are they to prejudge and surmise that you are just being silly? 

So let’s not be judgmental towards other people lah. Most importantly, don’t feel bad when people tell you how your problems are seemingly petty and bear no significance whatsoever. You have all the rights in the world to feel frustrated and above all, to allow time to heal your wounds.

epic fail

hah, i said i’d had found my newfound vigour and would go on a past paper frenzy, if one past paper (i.e. chemistry AS 2012 paper 12) constitutes a ‘frenzy’, suit yourself. but yeah, i’ve been super unproductive today. to think i’d dedicated a good FIVE days for as chemistry, i now have ONE day left, which is tomorrow, and this plan is already encroaching on the further stats revision territory. well what can i say, i’m the master of procrastination and i’d excel in all modules related to it. procrastination due to facebook, procrastination due to distractions (comfy bed, comfy couch, comfy armchair you name it) etc. and i’m up at 2:26am reading articles on thought catalog. way to go, jia ying, way to go~